Wednesday, December 2, 2020

The Next Time You Want to Complain at Work, Do This Instead

The Next Time You Want to Complain at Work, Do This Instead

The Next Time You Want to Complain at Work, Do This Instead

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I looked at my watch. It was 3:20pm. I had been on the phone for over an hour, almost all of that time listening to Frank*, a senior manager at Jambo, a technology company, complain about his boss, Brandon. Jambo is a company I know well — I have many ongoing relationships there from when I used to work with their CEO — but they are not, currently, a client. In other words, I wasn't soliciting complaints or asking for feedback.

"He's so scattered," Frank griped about Brandon, "He'll waltz into a meeting — late, mind you — and share his most recent idea, which is often a complete distraction from our current plan. Totally ignoring our agenda. And then he'll micromanage everything we do, reorganizing our work — though we're still accountable for the stuff he's ignoring. And that's not the worst. The worst is he's completely clueless. He thinks he's great. At yesterday's meeting . . ."

This was not the only complaining I heard from people at Jambo. Earlier that week I had spoken to several others, as well as a few members of the Board. And they weren't just complaining about Brandon — they were complaining about each other as well.

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